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Miranda Faith Memorial Foundation         Page My 3yr old daughter, Miranda Faith was murdered while on a scheduled visitation with her father, my ex-husband Charles Salley, Jr.

Charles was a Bossier City, Louisiana firefighter/paramedic. In the winter of 1999, he shot and killed his ex-girlfriend Michelle outside her workplace when she refused to speak to Charles in the parking lot. He pulled out a pistol and shot her 3 times in the face while surrounded by her friends and co-workers. Then he calmly walked over to his truck where he had left my sweet Miranda sitting alon

e, removed her from the vehicle, and carried her over to where Michelle lay on the pavement dying. Charles then proceeded to shoot his own child, my sweet Miranda, twice in the head. He did all of these things after I had him arrested and convicted of stalking and after Michelle had made her own restraining order and police reports. For the past 23 yrs, I’ve been an advocate for those who have been affected by domestic violence. I’ve made it my life’s mission to tell Miranda’s story in hopes that it will increase awareness and healing and reassure victims who suffer from domestic violence that there can be hope and even happiness after terrible tragedy.

02/27/2026

Let's talk about bravery.

I have submitted proposals to a few conferences, facilitating my own workshop on Intimate partner stalking, in addition to working with my friend and colleague on doing a 2-day training workshop on intimate partner stalking and domestic violence.
Here is where the "bravery" part comes in.

It hit me today that there is a very important added element we can use in our stalking workshop AND domestic violence workshops. Something disturbing and sinister, yet VERY effective. And that is...I can use many of the terrible and terrifying messages Charles used to leave on my answering machine. All recorded. His voice. His anger. His sweet and apologetic tone turned to unhinged rage.
Yes, this will trigger me. NO, I will not sleep well for a while. Yes, I will have to keep seeing my therapist 😅. Don't get me wrong. I am actually excited about this!

But here is what is most important to me. If dredging up the sound of his voice will DRIVE IT HOME to fellow advocates, law enforcement, attorneys, judges, and even survivors, etc, then so be it.

I can literally share an entire timeline of the stalking for which he was arrested, and the buildup before he decided to murder. You see, stalking is slow death by homicide.

What I have learned while working with Justin and listening to other people who train at these conferences is that LIVED experience is the most effective. And boy, did I live it.

So, I will be brave and have these tapes converted to digital and use them to hopefully help save lives. Because unless you actually hear the "crazy" and the unhinged anger, it's hard to believe it actually happened. Even to this day, after 27 years, some just don't get it, don't want to believe it, or just flat out refuse to try and understand how dangerous stalking is.

Carry on. I will keep you all posted✌️.

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02/26/2026

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01/13/2026

The column I wrote for the Ruston Daily Leader for Stalking Awareness Month.

Turning the Page on Stalking: Why Louisiana’s New Law Matters More Than Ever

January is Stalking Awareness Month, a time to shine a light on a crime that is far too common and far too often dismissed until it is too late. For me, this month is deeply personal. I am not only an advocate; I am a survivor. I know what it feels like to look over your shoulder, to constantly check your surroundings, and to live with the quiet, relentless fear that someone is watching, following, or tracking your every move. Stalking is not “attention,” not “jealousy,” and not “concern.” It is control. It is intimidation. And it is a predictor of lethal violence.
For survivors of domestic violence, stalking often continues long after the relationship ends. It escalates. It adapts. And today, it frequently becomes digital. Many abusers use technology to extend their reach, whether through hidden devices, hacked accounts, or remote tracking systems built into vehicles. This kind of surveillance traps victims in a cycle of fear, making every attempt to regain independence feel dangerous.
But this year, Louisiana has taken an extraordinary step forward. Act 225, passed in 2024, gives survivors something we have desperately needed: the ability to disable a remote tracking device on a vehicle once a protective order is in place. Now codified in La. R.S. 14:323, this law requires manufacturers to turn off a vehicle’s remote tracking features within two business days after receiving proper documentation, including a certified protective order and proof of ownership or exclusive use of the vehicle. “Act 225 closed the gap in the current law of illegal use of tracking devices, as well as creating legal demand to car manufacturers to create safety for survivors”, says Kelly Downey, a detective with the Bossier Parish Sheriff’s Office. “The very vehicle that a survivor uses to flee should not be the source of the predator to stalk with.” Kelly also co-authored Bill 74, along with Laurie Marien, Allison Alonzo, Monica Taylor, and Speaker pro tem Mike Johnson.
For those who have never experienced the terror of being followed or monitored, this change might sound technical. But for survivors like me, it is monumental. It is the difference between feeling hunted and feeling free. It hands power back to the person who has already endured too much.
Louisiana was the first state in the nation to pass a law like this, holding automakers accountable for their role in protecting victims. If a manufacturer fails to comply, they can face substantial civil penalties, funds that will support a Survivor Empowerment Fund. This isn’t just policy. It’s a recognition that technology has changed the landscape of abuse, and our laws must adapt just as quickly.
Stalking itself is already a crime under Louisiana law. Still, until now, survivors had little recourse when the person abusing them used remote access technology baked into the car they depended on. Act 225 closes that dangerous gap, acknowledging stalking, domestic violence, dating violence, and sexual assault as covered acts. It affirms that the state believes survivors and is willing to take concrete action to help keep them safe.
As a survivor of stalking and domestic violence, I see firsthand how vital this law is. Survivors come to DART scared, unsure how they are being watched, and unsure whether anyone will take their fears seriously. This month, I want every survivor to hear this clearly: Your fear is real. Your safety matters. And Louisiana has taken steps to protect you.
Stalking Awareness Month is about education, awareness, and accountability, but it is also about hope. Act 225 represents progress, compassion, and a future where survivors don’t have to choose between mobility and safety.
This January, let’s honor survivors by spreading the word, supporting one another, and continuing to push for the changes that save lives. Stalking thrives in silence, but so does healing, when we start breaking that silence together.

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Good morning, everyone! In case any of you are interested, one of my podcast interviews airs TODAY! You can listen on Am...
01/13/2026

Good morning, everyone! In case any of you are interested, one of my podcast interviews airs TODAY!

You can listen on Amazon Music, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, and YouTube.
It is also posted to the Radiate Wellness blog at https://www.radiatewellnesscommunity.com/podcast
and on their social media.

Happy listening!

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What does it take to turn tragedy into a life-saving mission? Kris Barney, Executive Director of the Miranda Faith Foundation, shares her powerful journey of survival, advocacy, and hope. This is an episode everyone should hear.

January is Stalking Awareness Month, and I am ready to hit the ground running. I have a PowerPoint prepared and am ready...
01/06/2026

January is Stalking Awareness Month, and I am ready to hit the ground running. I have a PowerPoint prepared and am ready to share a wealth of information.

If you are looking for someone to do a training, discussion, Zoom call, or speaking engagement, I am ready.

What you will learn is:
-What is stalking, and what does it look like exactly (you may think you know, but there is a lot more to learn)? This will include physical stalking, cellular, and digital stalking and harassment.
-Identifying the red flags
-How to get help and who to turn to
-Helping a friend who may be experiencing stalking
-The difference between intimate partner stalking and non-IP stalking
-The laws surrounding stalking in Louisiana
-The consequences of stalking. What is the law regarding stalking in Louisiana?
-What DART can do for you if you are experiencing stalking in any form.

What you will also learn from my own lived experience with stalking is: how it affected me, my family, and my friends, how it affected my job performance, how I resolved it, how my ex-partner got the nickname “The Stalker” throughout nearly every fire station in Bossier City, and the tragic end result.

*Approximately 15% of women surveyed in Louisiana reported having been stalked at some point in their lives.

*35.9% of Louisiana women and 35.2% of Louisiana men have experienced intimate partner physical violence, sexual violence, and/or stalking at some point in their lifetime.

*Over half (53%) of Louisiana adults report lifetime physical violence exposure and mental health issues after being stalked.

*According to National data (CDC) Louisiana’s 15% rate fits within this higher risk category for stalking.

*More research shows that, in Louisiana, a large majority of intimate partner homicide victims have been stalked by their partner before they were killed, with 76% of intimate partner homicide victims experiencing stalking and 54% reporting stalking to police before the killing.

*Louisiana ranks #5 in our nation for domestic homicide. Domestic homicide usually occurs after the victim has been stalked and after she has reported to law enforcement.

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12/03/2025

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This 👇. I have always been the "savior" never realizing how dangerous it was for me. I still have work to do, but I've gotten pretty good about setting those boundaries. I've been thrown under the bus enough times to understand when it's time to step away. This is a very good way to explain it.

Dear empaths…please be careful not to confuse empathy with savior complex. Empathy is feeling and understanding another person's emotions, while a savior complex is a psychological drive to "fix" or "save" others, often stemming from a need for the helper's own self-worth and a feeling it’s their calling to rescue everyone.

This mindset can be a trap. The world benefits from acts of kindness, generosity and compassion but with balance, you will overwhelm and exhaust yourself. Empathy is a genuine, healthy emotion, whereas a savior complex is an unhealthy and compulsive behavior that can lead to burnout, compassion fatigue, for the helper and resentment in the relationship as the result of taking ownership of the other person’s agency, accountability and responsibility.

The savior complex is empathy without boundaries. When you have a saviors complex you are drawn to projects, rescuing and fixing people. Many anxiously attached people derive a sense of worth and value from being able to help, fix or save someone, and so can often find themselves dating someone with unresolved issues who they think they can "redeem" with their love.

To stop the "savior complex," focus on setting boundaries, practicing active listening, and shifting your mindset to support others instead of rescuing them. You can achieve this by intentionally waiting to offer help, only acting when asked, and focusing on self-care to build your own self-worth. Remember, losing yourself to save or fix someone, especially an intimate partner, is never about love, it’s about doing their work to create or make someone be someone they don’t desire to be through the work they are required to do for themselves.

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09/23/2025

💜🦋Domestic Violence Awareness Month is fast approaching, and my calendar is filling up fast! If you need a speaker IN LINCOLN PARISH, you can DM here on Facebook or email me at [email protected].

If you need a speaker anywhere else in the world😅, you can DM me AND Boardman Training and Consulting here on Facebook or contact me at [email protected] or [email protected]💜🦋.

Right now, Justin Boardman and I are putting together a proposal about stalking and my terrifying experience with stalking.

Not only do I share my own experience with Domestic Violence, stalking, and sadly, homicide, I/we can also discuss all things domestic violence-related.

-Physical abuse
-mental, emotional, psychological abuse
-financial abuse
-stalking
-strangulation
-spiritual abuse
-dating violence/abuse
-workplace abuse/harassment
-digital abuse
-the neurobiology of trauma-Justin's specialty 😁
-sexual assault-Justin's specialty

You name it, I know it! WE know it!

Please help us make the world a better place for survivors and their children. 💜🦋

www.mirandafaith.org
www.justinboardman.com

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08/28/2025

In a few days, I leave for Orlando to speak at the National Center for Victims of Crime's 2025 National Training Institute. September 2-6.

The week after that, I will be speaking at the Louisiana District Attorney's Association annual VAC seminar in Baton Rouge. September 10-11. Of course, I will be with my buddy and colleague, Justin, for both of these amazing events.

In addition to facilitating a workshop, I will be attending many workshops for my own training.

I truly believe I am living out my purpose, and my dreams and goals are being manifested. This is not performative. This is intentional. After years of asking the question "WHY?" WHY did this happen to me? WHY didn't those who had the power to help me and Miranda ever help us? I have turned this pain into purpose, and I truly believe I am living out my destiny. I was left behind for this very reason.

Not only that, but I am holding true to my promise to Miranda that I will NEVER stop telling her story. I made a promise to Michelle and Gwen Gwen's Law. I promised them that I would tell their story until my last dying breath.

It is so very important that advocates, law enforcement, judges, attorneys, social workers, mediators, and everyone, for that matter, learn to respond to domestic violence victims/survivors through shared survivor stories, not just from reading a PowerPoint on a screen. And I intend to keep working hard to bring more awareness to domestic abuse in all of its forms.

My story isn't just about one abuser, but two brothers who were abusers turned murderers. It is about how the abusers were MULTIGENERATIONAL.

This will be three major conferences under my belt for 2025. This is more than I ever imagined as a first-time national speaker/facilitator, and I am beyond grateful for these opportunities. I am already researching submissions for conferences in 2026. I see another trip to Ireland in my future ☘️. Beyond Closed Doors Ireland 💜🦋





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07/03/2025

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