09/03/2020
I wanted to share something I've seen many men get trapped by... and often they don't even realize it.
There's a particular word that's extremely devastating to our lives.
It robs us of greater joy and harvests years of regret for so many of us.
That word is SOMEDAY.
"Someday, I want to be in better shape."
"Someday, I want to travel to Europe."
"Someday, I want to learn to play the guitar."
"Someday, I want to move to the beach."
The problem with someday is there is no commitment. No decision to act upon. No plan to layout. And no timeline to follow.
NOTHING HAPPENS.
That desire never becomes a reality. It floats away with time.
We never get in shape, develop that new talent, travel the world, move to where we want to live, or do any of the things that will bring us greater joy. We believe that by merely wishing that it'll someday happen... but it doesn't.
I've seen so many people I love go through life, living in somedays. They delay their wants and dreams.
Every day we wake up one day closer to our grave. And against popular belief, waiting till later only makes things more challenging. We weren't sent here to merely get through life... we are here to thrive!
Let me ask, why are you waiting for someday? Why not do it now? What's in your way from pursuing it immediately?
Years ago, I learned from one of my brilliant coaches that the words we use dictate our future.
Look at your life. What things have you wanted to do that you haven't? Why is that? When talking about it, have you fallen victim to "someday."
Hey, I get it. This can be scary to move towards. Stepping outside our comfort zones into the unknown isn't always fun.
But when you do, life becomes incredible to experience.
A significant part of the work we do with Epic Man Trips is helping men get very clear about what they want in their lives. Throughout the experience together, these men learn how to take extreme ownership of their lives so they can take massive action to ensure they get what they want. The best part is they find themselves in the process... they feel alive again!
This isn't about inspiration. It's about transformation. It's about becoming a better you as you take new action for an extraordinary life.
My invitation to you is to stop letting your life pass by, hoping that someday it will be better... to get off the bench and step up to the plate. Come learn how to take COMPLETE CONTROL of your life. You'll walk away a new man, more focused on what matters and driven to make it happen!
Join us on our next men's retreat! Applications are closing very soon. Jump over to EpicManTrips (dot) com right away to apply. If you don't, I promise you'll regret it.
-Drew