09/19/2026
Forget the hassle! Explore the world!
I would NEVER do these things in Korea. If I were visiting for the first time and wanted to be respectful, but also ensure that my trip was a success, If I were visiting for the first time and wanted my trip to be a success, I'd pay just as much attention to what I shouldn't do as what I should. With that said, these are things that I would never do in South Korea.
I WOULD NEVER:
LEAVE A TIP
It's just not part of the culture. In fact, it can be confusing or even awkward for the staff. The price on the menu is the price you pay. While there's always the occasional exception to this rule, it's safe to keep the tipping culture in the West.
WAIT FOR THE SERVER TO COME TO YOU
If you're sitting at a restaurant and you're hungry, look for the button on the table. Press it to get the server's attention. If there's no button, don't be afraid to call out "yeogiyo!" (Over here!). It seems odd at first, but ya gotta do it. With that said, don't be surprised if you see a tablet at your table to order from (that you can usually change to English), or even an NFC Tag and/or QR code to scan and order with.
POUR MY OWN DRINK
If you're out for BBQ or drinks with others, never pour your own glass. You pour for them, and they pour for you. Use two hands when you're receiving or pouring to show respect. It's a small gesture that shows you've done a bit of homework and want to respect the local culture.
MISS OUT ON KOREAN BBQ WITH ME (yes, me!)
While you can go to any random Korean BBQ, you really need someone there to enjoy the experience with. That's why I put together my ultimate night out in Seoul. Korean BBQ, soju, Korean pancakes, makgeolli, karaoke... so many great things to do in one evening. Whether you're traveling solo or with a group, it's a night that you won't get anywhere else! For more information, comment 'BBQ' or send a DM.
RELY ON GOOGLE MAPS
While it's true that the government and Google recently came to an agreement for Google Maps to fully function in Korea, they're still currently unreliable. Download Naver Maps or KakaoMap. They're currently the best ways to navigate the city.
TAKE A TAXI AT 6 PM
Seoul traffic is a beast that doesn't sleep. If you're trying to get across the river during rush hour, the subway is your only friend. It's cleaner, faster, and even though it's crowded, it's more reliable than a cab.
EAT THE GARLIC BREAD
This is the ultimate culinary betrayal. Sweet garlic bread is a Korean staple, but for a Western palate, it's a shock you're probably not prepared for. Consider yourself warned.
SIT IN THE RESERVED SEATS
Every subway car has designated seats at the ends for the elderly, pregnant, or people with disabilities. Even if the train is packed and those seats are empty, do not sit in them (unless you really need them, in which case, go for it!).
USE A LARGE SUITCASE IN SEOUL
The Seoul subway system is incredible, but the transfer tunnels in places like Dongdaemun History & Culture Park or Jongno 3 Ga are massive. If you're lugging a massive hardshell suitcase at rush hour, you're going to struggle. Stick to a carry-on or use a luggage delivery service from the airport.
BUY "CONVENIENCE STORE" COFFEE
Look, I love a GS25 snack as much as the next person, but Korea has the highest density of incredible independent roasters in the world. I'm no coffee snob, but there are some pretty great places in just about every neighborhood. Look for the small shops with a single roaster in the window.
TRUST THE SPICY WARNINGS
If a menu has three chili peppers next to a dish, don't treat it like a challenge. Korean spice is likely different than what you're used to. Unless you're a professional, start with "botong" (normal) and work your way up.
SIT IN THE FRONT SEAT OF A TAXI
Unless the back is completely full, don't do it. It's not a hard rule or anything, but it's a massive social awkwardness for the driver. Just slide into the back, enjoy the silence (or strike up a conversation), and watch the city go by.
BE TOO SHY TO ASK FOR MORE BANCHAN
Those little side dishes aren't a one-time deal. If you've finished the kimchi or roasted potatoes, just ask for more. Some places even have a "self-bar" where you can load up on your own. Don't be shy. It's built into your bill. Just be mindful and don't order more than you can actually eat.
ENTERTAIN THE CULT RECRUITERS
If a friendly stranger approaches you in Hongdae or Myeongdong asking to "talk about Korean culture" or "invite you to a traditional ceremony," keep walking. They're cult recruiters, and they prey on the politeness of travelers. Don't try to be polite. Just keep moving.
FORGET TO CHECK THE AIR QUALITY
Everyone plans for rain, but in Korea, you have to plan for the "fine dust." If the sky looks hazy, it's not "misty and romantic." It's pollution, and it can really ruin your day. Download the AirVisual app and keep a KF94 mask in your bag. If you have respiratory issues, you'll definitely want to keep this in mind.
So, there ya have it. As always, your opinion may differ from mine, and that's alright! :)
