What we women made for and how we have to raise our daughters

30/01/2021

A man said: My wife was sleeping next to me. And suddenly I got a notification from facebook, some girl requested to add me. So I thought let me see who it is...

I accepted her friend request and I sent her a message asking: "WHO IS THIS?”
She replied : I AM SO AND SO, I HEARD YOU GOT MARRIED, BUT I STILL MISS YOU.

(It was a friend from the past. She was a beautiful girl.)

I closed the chat to make sure my wife was sleeping.

I looked at her, she was sleeping deeply after her exhausting day from working around the house.

As I stared at her, I started to think -
How does she feel so safe that she can sleep so comfortably in a completely new home.

She is far from home, where she use to spend 24 years surrounded by her family.

When she became angry or sad, her mother was there for her so she could cry on her lap. Her sister or brother cracked jokes and made her laugh. Her father would come home and bring her all the things she liked.

All these thoughts came to my mind, so I picked up the phone and pressed "BLOCK".

I turned to face her and slept next to her. Because I Am A Man. A Man Who Doesn’t Cheat On His Wife And Doesn’t Break Up A Family. ❤️

29/01/2021

A woman called Sheikh Abdul Muhsin Al Ahmad and was complaining saying that she tried every single thing to please her husband but he is never happy and he is always dissatisfied.

She said: I don’t know what to do any more, I am completely burnt out, I even think of how to please him while I am praying. The Sheikh said: And he will never be pleased!!! If you are thinking to please him during your prayer while you are reading the words of Allah, he will never be pleased!!

The Sheikh asked her: do you have one hour a day, she said: all the hours. The Sheikh said: I just need one hour from you at the last third of the night, you pray to Allah and you say: Oh Allah I want you to be happy and pleased with me, I want your Rida (Satisfaction) that’s all I want. And if Allah gets satisfied with you, everyone else will become satisfied, he will make the angels happy with you, he will even make Gibreel happy with you and he will make all those around you happy and satisfied with you.

She said: is there an ayah from the Quran that states this?

The Sheikh said: Allah says in the Quran in surat Al Rum: And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought. [30:21]

Pay attention, who placed between you affection and mercy? You?.....No, HE did Subhanahu wa Talah. If He didn’t do that, you will never be able to do it yourself. The hearts belong to Allah and HE is the only one who can change them. Allah says what can be translated as: And brought together their hearts. If you had spent all that is in the earth, you could not have brought their hearts together; but Allah brought them together. Indeed, He is Exalted in Might and Wise. 8:63

The Sheikh said: Work hard to please Allah and you will see how Allah will change him and make him pleased with you.

After one year, the same woman came to the Sheikh and said: WAllahi I am doing less than 20% of what I used to do for him before and he is so happy and not only that, he even tries to do things to please me. She said all my intention and my efforts are always aiming to please Allah

There is a very simple equation in the , if you follow it you will always be happy. Allah says: Allah is pleased with them and they are pleased with Him.. [9:100]

So do the first part (Allah pleased with them) and Allah promised He will give you the second part.

Teach it to your children….A man said, it took me two years to teach my children this. I tell them when you pray what do you ask Allah? they would say to be pleased with us, I would say and what? They would say and make us successful, I would say: No….that is not a condition…..He said: I would ask them another time, what would you ask Allah when you pray?....They would say to be pleased with us….I would say: and what else? They would say: and get us married….I would say: not a condition. Until after two years I asked them what would you ask Allah when you pray? They said: We would ask him to be pleased with us….I said: and what else?….They said: that’s it.

Let’s learn from the Qur'an.

22/01/2021

20/01/2021

Your husband is your spoiled him as much as u want

20/01/2021

Everything mean everything success money and fame

19/01/2021

Husband: Have you prayed Asr?

Wife: No

Husband: Why?

Wife: I got back from work tired a bit so I took me a nap.

Husband: Ok... Go pray Asr and Maghrib before its time for Isha.

The next day... the husband leaves town on a business trip... But a few hours after his flight was scheduled to arrive he didn't call or even text her like he usually does to let her know that he had arrived safely..!!

The wife calls to check up on her husband but he doesn't pick up.. She calls again; the phone rings but no reply what so ever.

She was starting to get worried after many attempts of calling her beloved husband and no reply at all... She thinks to herself something must have went wrong he never does that. He always calls as soon as he lands.

A few hours pass by... and suddenly the phone rings and its the husband. Wife all worried says: have you arrived safely??

Husband: Yes, Alhamdulillah.

Wife: When?

Husband: About 4 hours ago.

Wife in an angered tone: 4 hours ago? And you don't call?

Husband: I was tired so decided to take a nap.

Wife: A few minutes wouldn't have hurt you if you were to call me and let me know you'v arrived... Plus haven't you heard the phone ringing over and over again as I was calling you..??

Husband: Yes, I heard it..

Wife: And you don't pick up..?? What are my calls not important enough for you..??

Husband: You're calls are important to me, but yesterday you didn't seem to mind not answering the calls of Athan.. Allah's call...

Wife with watery eyes and after a short silence says: Yes, you have a point.. I'm sorry..

Husband: Why are you apologizing to me? You should seek Allah's forgiveness and don't repeat the same mistake twice. All what I want out of this world is that Allah unites us both in a palace in Jannah where in it we can start our eternal life together. Ever since that day the wife never delayed any of her prayers.

“The one who truly loves you is the one who pushes you forward on your path to Allah and gets in your way and stops you from going backwards in life.” ❤️

18/01/2021

My name is khadija too

17/01/2021

❤️❤️❤️❤️

16/01/2021

In life, one of the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever.

A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important to the extent that so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to be able to make the right choice all over again. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, because you still have the best opportunity to prepare for it.

For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet?

You must look for a sincere and righteous man or a sincere and righteous woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can bring two wrong people together in marriage, then he will succeed in breaking the community ties and the nation down as a whole, and this is part of what we're witnessing all over the world presently.

Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. Allah has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better, it's not something you just jump into. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. You must pray before you choose.

Allah knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know Allah’s will when s*x is not involved. The moment s*x is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO S*X before marriage. If you have had s*x in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other, then you can seek forgiveness from Allah. Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honourable.

Don't marry for s*x, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.

But get married because you want to fulfill what Allah has ordained on every slave of His. Get married because you want to be a help mate, but most of all, because you want to fulfil a purpose of having completed half of your religion, your deen.

Allah will help you in choosing, please let's all continue to pray pervently to Allah for all we want. He loves us so dearly and He will answer all our duas and supplications at the right time.

I pray to Allah Almighty to give the best life partner to as many who truly desire to marry with the right Motives in Allah SWT Ameen.

Forward to all singles you Know.

16/01/2021

“I Know It’s Haram But ... I Love Him”

This is the answer that some sisters give when they tell them that having bf is Haram in Islam. So this is a message for everyone of them:

“Dear Sister, generally, a Muslimah should only love the man she will accept to marry because of his commitment to his deen! The more he will be closed to Allah, the more she should love him.

What about you? Why do you love him? Is it because of his sweet love words? Be certain that they are nothing but shaytan whispers!! Is it because of his promises of marriage? If he really wants you, he would be a real man and come to your house to ask for your hand in marriage… If he is a real man, he would approach your wali not you!!

Have you ever asked yourself if he truly loves you? Because if he truly does, then he wouldn’t let you face hell !! True love is when you pray to be gathered in Jannah with the one you love! That’s true love, and it only comes with Halal, after marriage!

Have you ever asked yourself if he would let his sister have boyfriend? A real Muslim man would have jealousy on his Maharim (his mother, sister, wife…) and if he has no Jealousy, so he is “dayouth” as Prophet Mohammad (sallaAllahu alaihi wa sallam) described this type of man! If he would let his sister to have bf, then you will know his true value, but if he would refuse to let her have bf then you will know your true value in his sight!!

Dear Sister, know that no matter how much he “loves” you in this Dunya , he will hate you 1000X more than that in the Akhirah.

YES!!He will HATE you, he will blame you for your relationship when he will be between the Hands of Allah, and he will beg for you to be thrown into the fire instead of him!

Allah says in Qur’an :”Al Akhillaa (Friends/the lovers who had forbidden relationships) on that Day will be foes one to another(they will be like enemies) except Al-Muttaqun (the ones who feared Allah)“ (43:67)

Is that the kind of love you want? A temporary feeling you get in Dunya, a feeling inspired by Shaytan which turn to hate in Akhirah?!!

Dear, please wake up before it’s too late, you still have time to make things right, leave this Haram relationship right now! Leave it for Allah .. Wallahi the price HE will grant you will be greater than you have ever thought… Just make that step today before tomorrow!

14/01/2021

EMBRYOLOGISTS:

A Muslim woman is the cleanest woman on earth.

A woman who is divorced by her husband has to wait (at least) 3 monthly periods and a woman whose husband died has to wait (at least) 4 months and 10 days before they can marry again.

If she turns out to be pregnant, then her waiting period lasts until the birth of the child.

This has surprised the modern science after discovering of (imprint man water).

The liquid imprint of a man contains 62 proteins, and it differs from one man to another, just like our fingerprints. It's like a personal code for each man and a woman's body carries the computer where the code can be put.

If a woman marries another man immediately after the divorce, or allows other codes to enter her, it's like viruses entering the computer. This will cause imbalance, and it'll bring dangerous infectious diseases. It has been proven scientifically, during the first menstrual period after divorce, the woman removes 32% to 35%.

Second period 67% to 72%,

And third period 99.9% of the man's imprint.

The womb is cleansed from the previous imprint after 3 menstrual periods, and it'll be ready to receive new imprint without injury or harm.

Therefore the practice of prostitution, or sleeping with more than one man causes dangerous diseases as a result of the mixing of s***m fluid in the womb. The waiting period of a widow needs more time to remove this code. Because grief makes the imprint to settle inside the womb in a very strong way. That's why Allah S.W.T Said {four months and ten days}.

This period is for the man's water imprint to vanish completely inside the womb of a widow.
This fact made an embryologist to carry out investigation into the neighborhood of African Muslims in America. He found out that all women carry their husbands imprint only. Investigation in another neighborhood of non Muslim women, shows that they possess multiple man's imprint, from two to three.

From that they discovered that Islam is the only religion that guarantees women's immunity and holding of society.

Therefore Muslim women are the cleanest on earth.

May Almighty Allah reward all Muslim women who tightly hold to the rope of Allah. Ameen