13/06/2024
I’ve stayed off social media for a lot of things but now I am pleading to anyone that has contact with my children’s father….
I asked him to sign the girls passports in August last year and he wrote back to our eldest child on kids messenger saying… “tell mum to send the passport paperwork and I will sign it” I have done this but now he refuses. I actually sent it twice.
He even wrote in a settlement offer if the divorce goes through he will sign the passports, we are now officially divorced. But still he refuses to sign. I have all of this evidence to show.
He has not seen the kids since June 2023 and that was when he tried to pick the girls up from school and they refused to go with them. Prior to that was 3 hours in Feb and before that was Jan for 7 days where he returned them to the forrestfield police station.
He has recently asked for DNA tests of all the girls as he does not believe they are his.
He has my phone number blocked, has me blocked on social media and most other ways of communicating, he does not respond to emails regarding the child.
His current problem is he wants to be emergency contact on the passport but I have put a friend down that would be willing to contact him should an emergency happen. I can’t contact him in Australia if the girls are in an accident, why should another country make a difference.
I have applied to the passport office for special circumstances but it’s a long process. I have also applied to the courts to get a custody agreement for the kids. I have tried to do mediation for the children twice but he refused, I have the certificate to prove this.
I have my passport and will be going to Bali for my Dad’s 70th in July. I have friends who have offered to have the girls while I am away, but when I go and the girls learn they can’t go because their dad refused to sign the passports, I do not think he will ever be able to rebuild a relationship with them.
I’m sure he has told you all sorts of stories, but remember there is always 3 sides to every story!!
I am begging anyone that may have contact with my children’s father, please ask him to do the right thing for the girls. Why should they have to be caught up in all the adult drama. I thought he had moved on and started a new family but he still feels the need to control us.
Fingers crossed my children get to come to Bali and celebrate their pop’s 70th with the rest of us!!
Jo