22/11/2023
Six years ago, I wouldn't have grasped the idea that my heartbreak was a part of a bigger plan that God had for me – I wouldn't have believed it if you told me.
In those moments of wishing we'd never met or trying to force things to work, the pain, embarrassment, loss, fear, and loneliness felt overwhelming.
Learning to love again and navigate life without that person was tough. I unraveled, shedding the version of me that was shaped for acceptance.
I reconnected with my truth, knowing I couldn't go back to who I was before.
I never wanted to go through that pain again, so I put in the work. Soaked up knowledge about relationships, men, self-love & healing, translated it into my life, connected the dots, and truly started to understand myself.
This work isn't easy, I ran away from it for most my life. But it's 100% worth it.
I’ve lifted myself from the lowest of lows and I embodied a kind of strength, resilience, courage, and confidence I never knew I had.
I’ve learned to love again and this time I understand the true meaning of it- the healthy version of it. Now, I have the kind of relationship and family I’ve always wanted with a man I’m madly in love with.
I also left an unfulfilling healthcare job to step into a career where I get to support women on their healing journey.
I console and cheer myself on, ask for and receive what I need. I broke away from the idea that I must make everyone else happy to be loved. I am living the most authentic version of myself and I finally know what true joy feels like.
I'd never have imagined this was path that I was meant to take to get me here but I’m grateful for the bigger plan that was at play.
Surrender and release control, friend. You have the choice to turn this pain into your power.
