04/18/2026
When we are young, change is different, unknown & exciting. At some point, as we age, we begin to prefer routine, familiar & predictable. When does that transition happen? I remember being younger and watching my grandparents have baked beans, hot dogs and brown bread EVERY Saturday night. I would think, wow-I am never going to be that repetitive. As I aged, I saw my parent’s friends go to the grocery store every Friday night and I laughed and said, “that will never be me.” I used to call my mom on a Monday morning and ask her what her plans were, and she said it was Monday, so of course she was doing laundry. She did laundry every Monday. My life was one big whirlwind of work, kids, & chores and I did not even know what day it was most of the time, so I could not imagine a life so tedious. Now, I am older and have unexpectedly transitioned into a repetitive life, and I love it! There is comfort in knowing that every morning I am watching the news, drinking coffee, and doing puzzles on my phone from 6:30-8:00. When I walk my beagle, she likes routine too-so we follow the same path every day. I still like little changes-my husband and I explore unique towns, and go different directions and meet new people, but there are no MOMENTOUS changes. The reward for aging is that you get comfortable with your life. You like your big fuzzy blanket on the couch, your favorite flannel shirt and knowing who you will meet at the post office at 2pm on a Friday. Tranquility is the reward for feeling like your life was a whirling dervish when you were younger. There is peace in standing still, knowing your next move, and feeling grounded. If life feels a little hum drum, I do something stimulating like a new recipe, a different book genre, or a craft project. I do have a BIG change on the horizon, but I have been planning it for so long that it does not feel daunting. More news on that another time, for now-time to do laundry, because it’s Monday!